Sunday, January 24, 2010

What is love?

I've never really been in a relationship. I've had a few crushes and a fling. That's it. :P However, I know a lot about love. People wonder how someone who has never been in a relationship know anything about love. I guess I know about it through the experience of my friends than my personal experience.

I consider myself to be lucky to be the person many people turn to when they have a problem. With listening to their stories and giving advice, I have learnt about love. One thing I know for sure is that we all are going to live a happy life in the end. I've seen many friends settling down with better people with time. None of us are ready to believe just after a breakup that we can move on, but trust me... YOU CAN!

People really find it hard to handle breakups. I know it is truly hard to get over something like that. But what we need to understand is that it is our mind that can make us happy or sad. If we try be optimistic, we can enjoy life to the fullest.

Nothing is the end of the world. Whatever it is, we all need to move on. We need to live life. Coz life just goes on.

If you are heartbroken, I suggest you listen to songs that light you up. The best song I think is "God bless the broken road". It kind of goes with what I believe. Destiny has a plan for all of us. Everything that happens today leads to something great. So, keep believing.

My conclusion about love is that love is a beautiful thing. It is all about feeling that someone else in the world is ready to give you all the attention you need. When people are in love, they think it's the best thing in the world. But when they breakup, they hate it. But what most of us don't realize is, the real meaning of love comes out when you meet the right person. When you find someone who can share love with you and show you what the meaning of it.....that's when you've found love. If you break up with someone, what you had wasn't real love. ;-)

Good luck everyone! :D